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		<title>By: Happy Birthday, Let&#8217;s Live Forever! — Let's Live Forever!</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6758</link>
		<dc:creator>Happy Birthday, Let&#8217;s Live Forever! — Let's Live Forever!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 13:08:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] things like focusing on your strengths, and Natural has been thinking out loud about whether to be anonymous on a blog. Barbara has a blog all about blogging tips, which help many a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6751</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 22:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Natural,

In my view, the question as to whether or not you use your real name as a blogger depends largely upon the objectives of your blog. This, in turn, points to the importance of clarifying your objectives at the outset.

If you are going to be writing about topics which are not too personal (like animals, software development or the dairy industry just to give a few examples), then use of your real name does not inhibit your capacity for freedom of expression to any significant extent and I would see no good reason not to use your real identity. 

If, on the other hand, your writing is more personal, then use of your own identity does place limitations upon what you may feel comfortable in sharing. In such cases, I feel that a separate identity may be warranted.

&lt;b&gt;true andrew, but most people, myself included, just jump right into blogging and don&#039;t think about that. &lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Andrew&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.goodhonestdollar.com/should-nightclubs-pay-for-cops&quot;&gt;Should nightclubs pay for cops?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Natural,</p>
<p>In my view, the question as to whether or not you use your real name as a blogger depends largely upon the objectives of your blog. This, in turn, points to the importance of clarifying your objectives at the outset.</p>
<p>If you are going to be writing about topics which are not too personal (like animals, software development or the dairy industry just to give a few examples), then use of your real name does not inhibit your capacity for freedom of expression to any significant extent and I would see no good reason not to use your real identity. </p>
<p>If, on the other hand, your writing is more personal, then use of your own identity does place limitations upon what you may feel comfortable in sharing. In such cases, I feel that a separate identity may be warranted.</p>
<p><b>true andrew, but most people, myself included, just jump right into blogging and don&#8217;t think about that. </b></p>
<p><abbr><em>Andrew&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.goodhonestdollar.com/should-nightclubs-pay-for-cops">Should nightclubs pay for cops?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:31:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve often wished I had started my blog anonymously so I could really say what I think... but then I come to my senses and realise I don&#039;t think it would be a good thing for anyone to have that out there in perpetuity... so having my real name IS definitely a good self-check feature.

&lt;b&gt;i understand. blogging under your real name can keep you in check. having it both ways works well for me.&lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Maureen&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ratherbeblogging.com/2009/01/losing-it.html&quot;&gt;Losing It&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve often wished I had started my blog anonymously so I could really say what I think&#8230; but then I come to my senses and realise I don&#8217;t think it would be a good thing for anyone to have that out there in perpetuity&#8230; so having my real name IS definitely a good self-check feature.</p>
<p><b>i understand. blogging under your real name can keep you in check. having it both ways works well for me.</b></p>
<p><abbr><em>Maureen&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.ratherbeblogging.com/2009/01/losing-it.html">Losing It</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ling</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6691</link>
		<dc:creator>Ling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 13:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Before you start blogging anonymously (or not), you need to think about a few things. The most important thing to consider is where your blog is heading to. If you&#039;re one day going to be faced with a choice of either giving up the blog, or revealing your identity (as mostly happens to all successful anonymous bloggers), then you&#039;d be better off blogging as yourself right from the start. 

Second thing to consider is your post-blog life. Meaning that once you&#039;re done blogging, you&#039;re going to be looking to do something else. At that time, do you want your blog posts to come back and bite your new career before it begins? Or maybe the kind of blogging you do will actually be counted as experience for the job you want. So... You might also think whether you have anything else planned for your future. And if so, is your blog going to help or hurt that effort?

&lt;b&gt;great comment. thanks. i doubt i will EVER reveal myself on one of my blogs, maybe the other one down the line, but i don&#039;t feel the need.  i&#039;m me, here.  it&#039;s hard to think about the impact of what we do now and now that will influence our future, but it does. &lt;/b&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Before you start blogging anonymously (or not), you need to think about a few things. The most important thing to consider is where your blog is heading to. If you&#8217;re one day going to be faced with a choice of either giving up the blog, or revealing your identity (as mostly happens to all successful anonymous bloggers), then you&#8217;d be better off blogging as yourself right from the start. </p>
<p>Second thing to consider is your post-blog life. Meaning that once you&#8217;re done blogging, you&#8217;re going to be looking to do something else. At that time, do you want your blog posts to come back and bite your new career before it begins? Or maybe the kind of blogging you do will actually be counted as experience for the job you want. So&#8230; You might also think whether you have anything else planned for your future. And if so, is your blog going to help or hurt that effort?</p>
<p><b>great comment. thanks. i doubt i will EVER reveal myself on one of my blogs, maybe the other one down the line, but i don&#8217;t feel the need.  i&#8217;m me, here.  it&#8217;s hard to think about the impact of what we do now and now that will influence our future, but it does. </b></p>
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		<title>By: The Mother</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6671</link>
		<dc:creator>The Mother</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 22:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It fascinates me when mommybloggers use their real names while posting great stories about their kids/pictures of their kids. Usually, those kids are young and cute.

When they get to be teens, they aren&#039;t so young and cute. 

But mostly, I blog anonymously because they are old enough to use a computer. And so are their friends. While I never say anything that I wouldn&#039;t allow them to read (they know they&#039;re annoying!), I really don&#039;t want them to have to take crap from their friends about it.

Pretty much the same reason that I don&#039;t link my facebook page to their facebook pages. Mommy-shame applies.

&lt;b&gt; i know. maybe they don&#039;t think they&#039;ll be in the game that long and will delete their blog or the post will be so buried, no one will even bother to look. i wouldn&#039;t want my mother linked to my facebook page..i don&#039;t even know if she is welcomed on this blog. lol. she&#039;s mommy first - don&#039;t lurk around like a friend.  shudders. &lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Mother&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheMothersHandbooknet/~3/gCzKrFEwQ-w/&quot;&gt;The Rules Don’t Apply to Her!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It fascinates me when mommybloggers use their real names while posting great stories about their kids/pictures of their kids. Usually, those kids are young and cute.</p>
<p>When they get to be teens, they aren&#8217;t so young and cute. </p>
<p>But mostly, I blog anonymously because they are old enough to use a computer. And so are their friends. While I never say anything that I wouldn&#8217;t allow them to read (they know they&#8217;re annoying!), I really don&#8217;t want them to have to take crap from their friends about it.</p>
<p>Pretty much the same reason that I don&#8217;t link my facebook page to their facebook pages. Mommy-shame applies.</p>
<p><b> i know. maybe they don&#8217;t think they&#8217;ll be in the game that long and will delete their blog or the post will be so buried, no one will even bother to look. i wouldn&#8217;t want my mother linked to my facebook page..i don&#8217;t even know if she is welcomed on this blog. lol. she&#8217;s mommy first &#8211; don&#8217;t lurk around like a friend.  shudders. </b></p>
<p><abbr><em>The Mother&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheMothersHandbooknet/~3/gCzKrFEwQ-w/">The Rules Don’t Apply to Her!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Valerie</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6643</link>
		<dc:creator>Valerie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 10:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Blogging under your real name is limiting if you care who sees it or what people think.  On the other hand blogging under a pseudonym can be limiting because some people don&#039;t trust an anonymous blogger.

For this young lady, she could post under a pseudonym and say that what she writes is fiction.  You don&#039;t need trust for fiction, people just like a good story.

I have three blogs - 2 niche blogs and 1 whatever blog.  I write all three under my real name.  On my &quot;whatever&quot; blog, I&#039;m not completely transparent but I may be after I retire :D

Glad I found you again, I enjoy reading your blog.

&lt;b&gt; hi valerie.  we share the same name. whooo hoo. i like blogging under my real name and under a pseudo. on the anon blog, i don&#039;t want anything. i don&#039;t care about subscribes, comments, rank, post schedule. it&#039;s just me and my blog.

i&#039;m not sure if judy is her real or fake name. the content for me is what&#039;s most important. 

thanks for finding me again, valerie.  &lt;/b&gt;  

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Valerie&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.valeriehjohnson.com/our-vet-gives-better-customer-service-than-our-doctor.html&quot;&gt;Our Vet Gives Better Customer Service Than Our Doctor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Blogging under your real name is limiting if you care who sees it or what people think.  On the other hand blogging under a pseudonym can be limiting because some people don&#8217;t trust an anonymous blogger.</p>
<p>For this young lady, she could post under a pseudonym and say that what she writes is fiction.  You don&#8217;t need trust for fiction, people just like a good story.</p>
<p>I have three blogs &#8211; 2 niche blogs and 1 whatever blog.  I write all three under my real name.  On my &#8220;whatever&#8221; blog, I&#8217;m not completely transparent but I may be after I retire <img src='http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Glad I found you again, I enjoy reading your blog.</p>
<p><b> hi valerie.  we share the same name. whooo hoo. i like blogging under my real name and under a pseudo. on the anon blog, i don&#8217;t want anything. i don&#8217;t care about subscribes, comments, rank, post schedule. it&#8217;s just me and my blog.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m not sure if judy is her real or fake name. the content for me is what&#8217;s most important. </p>
<p>thanks for finding me again, valerie.  </b>  </p>
<p><abbr><em>Valerie&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.valeriehjohnson.com/our-vet-gives-better-customer-service-than-our-doctor.html">Our Vet Gives Better Customer Service Than Our Doctor</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6641</link>
		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 22:26:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just popping by.

Looking forward to your next post.

&lt;b&gt;hey thanks jannie.  it&#039;s in my head somewhere, i&#039;m just relaxing, so maybe i&#039;ll do something funny next. &lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jannie Funster&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=4330&quot;&gt;Bristles on a stick&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just popping by.</p>
<p>Looking forward to your next post.</p>
<p><b>hey thanks jannie.  it&#8217;s in my head somewhere, i&#8217;m just relaxing, so maybe i&#8217;ll do something funny next. </b></p>
<p><abbr><em>Jannie Funster&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=4330">Bristles on a stick</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Urban Thought</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6639</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Thought</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 21:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I blog under another name, several actually. And so I&#039;d say it is always best to keep your identity secret. You never know what job you may look for and they start searching on the net and find your blog. Not you, but you know what I mean.

&lt;b&gt;i agree urban. i have never wondered about your name until now. barry. or harry or dexter. :) &lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/b2hMdAHCXZo/&quot;&gt;Wordless Wednesday: Circular Rainbow&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I blog under another name, several actually. And so I&#8217;d say it is always best to keep your identity secret. You never know what job you may look for and they start searching on the net and find your blog. Not you, but you know what I mean.</p>
<p><b>i agree urban. i have never wondered about your name until now. barry. or harry or dexter. <img src='http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </b></p>
<p><abbr><em>Urban Thought&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/b2hMdAHCXZo/">Wordless Wednesday: Circular Rainbow</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax</title>
		<link>http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/incognito/comment-page-2/#comment-6638</link>
		<dc:creator>Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 19:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a VERY important consideration for ANYONE considering launching a blog.  

Of course your blog is going to be different if you&#039;re blogging under a pseudonym!  An anonymous blog can be anything you want it to be because it doesn&#039;t affect YOUR personal reputation.

Again it all comes back to WHY you&#039;re blogging.  If your name wasn&#039;t &quot;attached&quot; to this blog - I&#039;m not sure I&#039;d give it the &quot;credibility&quot; I do because it&#039;s fiercely attached to YOUR name.

&lt;b&gt;well that&#039;s the thing. anybody can give you a name. we have no real way of checking and who would go through the trouble?  i give anon bloggers just as much cred because they have nothing to hide, but themselves. the truth flows freely. &lt;/b&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kathy &#124; Virtual Impax&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://virtualimpax.com/2009/02/18/social-media-communication-on-steroids/&quot;&gt;Social Media is Simply Communication on Steroids&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a VERY important consideration for ANYONE considering launching a blog.  </p>
<p>Of course your blog is going to be different if you&#8217;re blogging under a pseudonym!  An anonymous blog can be anything you want it to be because it doesn&#8217;t affect YOUR personal reputation.</p>
<p>Again it all comes back to WHY you&#8217;re blogging.  If your name wasn&#8217;t &#8220;attached&#8221; to this blog &#8211; I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d give it the &#8220;credibility&#8221; I do because it&#8217;s fiercely attached to YOUR name.</p>
<p><b>well that&#8217;s the thing. anybody can give you a name. we have no real way of checking and who would go through the trouble?  i give anon bloggers just as much cred because they have nothing to hide, but themselves. the truth flows freely. </b></p>
<p><abbr><em>Kathy | Virtual Impax&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://virtualimpax.com/2009/02/18/social-media-communication-on-steroids/">Social Media is Simply Communication on Steroids</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kim Woodbridge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim Woodbridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2009 15:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t really write about anything that will offend anyone unless they *really* don&#039;t like the plugin I&#039;m recommending ;-)  And my domain name is my name so I can&#039;t really use an alias.  I&#039;ve had thoughts of starting another site that I might want to be more private but that&#039;s still in the thought stages.

And I&#039;m with Barbara - I usually think of you as Natural rather than Valerie.

&lt;b&gt;well i&#039;m sure none of us write to purposely offend, but it happens. people get mad and want to attack you. could get ugly.  it&#039;s nice to have a little something on the side, a blog that is, just for YOU. &lt;/b&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t really write about anything that will offend anyone unless they *really* don&#8217;t like the plugin I&#8217;m recommending <img src='http://thinkingoutloudblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />   And my domain name is my name so I can&#8217;t really use an alias.  I&#8217;ve had thoughts of starting another site that I might want to be more private but that&#8217;s still in the thought stages.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m with Barbara &#8211; I usually think of you as Natural rather than Valerie.</p>
<p><b>well i&#8217;m sure none of us write to purposely offend, but it happens. people get mad and want to attack you. could get ugly.  it&#8217;s nice to have a little something on the side, a blog that is, just for YOU. </b></p>
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